When Memorial Day Became A Holiday for Me
As a child, I heard of war mentioned in social studies classes. I heard my parents talk about their uncle who served in the “big one.” I saw my father watch many military television shows. And Memorial Day and Veteran’s Day were just days off from school. I didn’t understand the sacrifices that were made on my behalf.
When I was in high school our friend Mike was in the military. I never got the feeling that he served in the military because he loved our country, but rather because he wanted the money and tuition money that the military provided. I know that sounds terrible, but you have to remember that was all pre-9/11. Many people of my generation didn’t know what it was like for our country to be at war. While a teen, Memorial Day Weekend was a time to party…..not necessarily because I was proud to be an American, but like many teens I didn’t need a reason to party.
When I went to college, I had a lot of friends who were in the military. Again, I always felt that they did it for the money. That sounds terrible, right? College is expensive and being in the military made it affordable for students. Memorial Day weekend was a time to celebrate because college classes and exams were done.
Later in life, I met people who served in the military because they love our country – not because they needed money for college, but because they really loved our country and felt a responsibility to fight for our freedom. And that’s when I learned how important it is to celebrate our veterans.
After 9/11, a friend joined the military and before he left for Iraq, I hugged him tightly. He sensed my sadness and said, “Don’t worry I will be back.” He did come back and made several other missions to Iraq. That’s a hero!
We went out to Long Island National Cemetery. It’s incredible to see all these flags placed on the graves. Although I think it’s beautiful, I’m glad it’s not my job to do it. Can you imagine how long it took to do the whole cemetery?
Lee’s Dad and his uncles were in the military. Lee joined the Marines after college. When I asked him why, he told me because he liked the Marines.
Rest in Peace E&L.
Hugs,
marlene
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